Let me try to express more clearly what I meant in the first part of the previous post with this example. If you notice , from far away, that a toddler just fell in a pool and you shout to its parent who was busy with something else to notice that then in a normal reaction no matter how much that parent appreciate your notice that appreciation would not take any part from the seriousness of  his/her effort to correcting the situation.

I don't feel the same balanced reaction here. I don't feel that the main matter here is far enough from being taken as a game where even things that are of the notice kind of this example are not themselves being used to at least partly eclipse the gravity of that main matter and that the view to the human value of the victims in comparison with those talking about or dealing with this matter is not reduced to be closer to that of a thing making the occasion.